Ethics and Essential Energetic Boundaries for Helping Practitioners

Content and Purpose:

Have you ever felt worn out or overwhelmed with your work in helping others? Have you ever struggled with boundaries in client relationships? Have you ever faced an ethical dilemma in your role as a helper or as a client and wondered what the ethics of pet loss grief counseling really are? Have you ever been told you are “too sensitive” for your own good? Most of us in professional helping roles have faced these issues at one time or another. This class provides strategies for these issues with discussions, shared ideas and stories, case studies, hands-on exercises and numerous handouts.

Many of us began our work in the helping professions—whether in counseling, animal communication, grief support or other healing arts—deeply motivated by love, compassion and a genuine heart-felt desire to serve. While this provides a profoundly important foundation, it is not enough. If we don’t also consciously develop and use energetic boundaries and the ethics of pet loss grief counseling in our work, we can inadvertently undermine the effectiveness and quality of the help we offer others and also become depleted ourselves.

The practice of consciously using energetic boundaries and protection is one of the most vital and primary areas of competency needed to do any work in the helping professions, and to do the work well without becoming burned out, and without violating the boundaries and ethics of pet loss grief counseling–even unwittingly.

This class provides an in-depth opportunity to examine and explore how both the ethics of pet loss grief counseling and energetic boundaries can be applied in our work to provide clients with a sense of safety, trust and optimum opportunities for healing and growth, and to provide ourselves with energetic preparedness to offer our knowledge and skills with clarity, without bias (including unconscious bias), and with greater ability to be fully present with the stories, pain and trauma of clients with reduced risk of burnout and compassion fatigue.

Participants in this class have an opportunity to:

• Learn methods of energetic protection to be able to remain fully open-hearted and compassionate when working with clients without taking in their pain and energy—which reduces the risks of secondary traumatization (compassion fatigue) and burnout.
• Increase understanding about the full nature of “being sensitive”—that it is normal, it is healthy and is a gift that must be handled with continual, conscious care if it is to be enjoyed by those who possess it and used effectively to help others.
• Develop a clear understanding of the dynamics and negative impact of filtering and projection; and learn tools to prevent inappropriate, and often unconscious, filtering and projecting of our own beliefs, ideas and values onto clients.
• Explore the core ethics of the helping professions, with particular attention to the context of ethics of pet loss grief counseling, as a tool to bridge the gap between our intention to serve with integrity and professionalism and specific guidelines of how to do that.
• Build our awareness of how to set boundaries regarding the logistics and decisions of how we work, when we work, and with whom we work.

To learn more about the ethics of pet loss grief counseling and energetic boundaries, read the Code of Ethics and Underlying Principles of this program.

Testimonials

Everyone should take this class!!
It has changed my whole outlook and opened up my eyes to see how I can be effective for clients. Changed by whole business outlook. Everyone should take this class!!
~ Diane D, Kingston, MA

A good reminder to be more protected while in a helping role
Very, very good class on boundaries and ethical practices A good reminder to be more protected while in a helping role. Very helpful to look at the individual examples of exercises and case studies.
~ Lori P, Cloverdale, CA

Class has given me ideas to strengthen my boundaries with love
It’s a very unique class and addresses so much. I have enjoyed clarifying many grey areas. 
Boundaries has been a biggie for me as I work with people and they start to see me as a “friend” then I feel guilty if I can’t enable that friendship like I am hurting them. The class has given me ideas to strengthen my boundaries with love from the beginning. Thank you!
~ Narel W, Tomerong NSW, Australia

The class was magnificent
The written materials were so filled with valuable information about boundaries and ethics of pet loss grief counseling and were very pleasing to the eye. Teresa’s soothing voice and meticulous holding of space brought me immense healing while I learned. Thank you so much for this big gift.
~ Jane S, Santa Maria, CA

Having done a lot of curriculum design, I was constantly aware of how beautifully conceived and implemented this course was
I received some wonderful training in the tools of my practice, but knew something was missing. This was it. Principles that I had grasped intuitively but not named became clear and therefore reliably accessible to me. I feel ready to embrace my work as a flower essence practitioner with fresh verve and confidence. As a college professor, I know how valuable “could have been better” comments are in fine-tuning a course. So I wish I had something to contribute. No luck there! Having done a lot of curriculum design, I was constantly aware of how beautifully conceived and implemented this course was. When students are learning happily and easily, you can bet that the instructor has spent countless hours and much deep and detailed thought to create the conditions that make learning seem easy. Teresa is a master teacher.

The Helping Practitioner’s Pyramid brings important principles together in an integrated way that can be called on right in the moment for guidance. Only two days after my first class, I was asked to help with a very serious and difficult decision about an animal’s health care. I brought the pyramid to my mind’s eye and referred to it repeatedly during the session. I found it to be an elegant and reliable guide which contributed considerably to the positive outcome of this conversation.

Doing the exercises in advance primed me for full participation in the class, allowing me to start mulling over issues and how they related to me so that I could take full advantage of the sessions. The case studies helped anchor the principles in real life, and will make it much easier to remember and apply the principles in the future.

Teresa is a trustworthy guide who practices the principles she teaches. She listened carefully to what participants had to say, honored our contributions and skillfully tied our input back to the principles she was teaching. She is a caring presence and skilled teacher.
~ Laurel B, Pasadena, CA




The class was very well prepared
The handouts were actually more complete and thorough and a great prep for each session, much more so than most of the nursing seminars I’ve attended that have cost more. There was a lot of time to hear comments and ask questions. Teresa was very generous with her time.
~ Kendra L, Los Angeles, CA

Excellent!
Teresa’s usual thoroughness and excellent organization made everything very digestible and clear. I got clarity on copyrights and use of materials.
~ Roberta J, Chelsea, MI

Great material. Wonderful handouts.
Excellent class Teresa! Great discussion. You outdid yourself again!!! I am so grateful for this experience!!! Thank you!! Thank you!! Thank you!! I enjoy your classes so much! You are an excellent teacher and facilitator. And one of the most big-hearted most compassionate people I know. I am so grateful for you.
~ Lori K, Fallston, MD


The class was magnificent
The written materials were so filled with valuable information on boundaries and ethics of pet loss grief counseling and were very pleasing to the eye. Teresa’s soothing voice and meticulous holding of space brought me immense healing while I learned. Thank you so much for this big gift.
~ Jane S, Santa Maria, CA

I so admire your integrity in doing whatever it takes to get the information out, clearly and completely!
The material on boundaries has framed a couple of conversations with clients this week. Even when I know the material already, it helps (adds to the toolkit) to hear the way you put it. Thank you.
~ Rev. Nancy S, Hayward, CA